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Recognizing and respecting your limits plays a significant role in reducing stress during the holidays, which often demand a lot of your time and energy. Think of what is most important to you and your family and focus on those aspects of the holidays, while letting go of smaller, less important things. Know that it is ok to do less, and enjoy the moments of warmth and togetherness as a family.

Put yourself at the top of your to-do list! Self-care is especially important during the holidays and is a great way to reduce stress and feel rejuvenated during your busy schedule.

Many people often feel obligated to say “yes” to everything during the holidays; however, if you are feeling stressed and overwhelmed, sometimes, the best thing to do is to find the courage to say “no.” Missing one holiday party, deciding not to host this year, or saying no to an extra shopping trip might be just what you need to lessen your load and enjoy time with your family.

Planning ahead is a great way to reduce the stress and chaos that often accompany the holidays. Try creating a schedule to help you visualize your goals and expectations and to determine what you can realistically accomplish this year. Think about what aspects of the holidays are most important to you and your family and prioritize them by putting them at the top of your to-do list. Remember, the goal is to be realistic and to create a plan that will allow you and your family to enjoy the holidays with as little stress as possible!

We often set extremely high expectations for the holidays and feel the need to create the “perfect” holiday experience, which can lead to increased feelings of pressure and stress. By setting realistic expectations, we can create clear and attainable goals for the holidays without feeling overwhelmed. Remember, families change and grow over time, so it is important to let go of expectations of past traditions and be open to creating new experiences with your family.

The holidays bring feelings of joy, excitement, and togetherness. With the abundance of gatherings with family and friends, the anticipation of gift-giving, and the promise of cherished traditions, there is so much to look forward to. However, this whirlwind of activities and events can also lead to unwanted feelings of pressure and stress. We often have very high expectations for the holidays and feel immense pressure to meet these expectations. What is supposed to be enjoyable and create feelings of happiness, can easily become a daunting checklist that seems impossible to finish in time.

HRI believes that families deserve to enjoy the holidays, spend time together, and create deeper family connections, without overwhelming feelings of stress! Over the next week, we will be sharing tips to help families reduce and manage holiday stress.